What Gentle Movement Should Feel Like
Listen to your body first
This guidance is general as every postpartum recovery looks different. A helpful question to ask yourself is: “Will this help me feel better today?” The first six weeks after birth are about healing and adjusting, so if light movement feels good, that’s great! If it feels like too much, it’s okay to wait. Your priority will be recovery, not adding stress to an already full plate. If movement doesn’t feel helpful one day, pause and check in with yourself another day.
We use a tool called the Rate of Perceived Exertion (RPE) which simply means: how hard does this feel to you right now?
Imagine a scale from 1 to 10:
- 1 is extremely easy with minimal to no effort
- 10 is the hardest effort you can imagine
During postpartum recovery, movement should feel like about a 3 or 4 out of 10 at most. That means:
- You’re breathing comfortably
- You could still hold a conversation
- You feel gently challenged, not strained
If something feels harder than that, it’s okay to slow down, take a break, or stop. This phase is about healing and reconnecting with your body, not pushing through, so take it slow and listen to your body.
Recovery Considerations
As your body recovers from pregnancy and birth, it’s normal for exercise to feel different. If you experience any of the symptoms below, don't worry, they are common and often improve as your body continues to heal.
- Bladder leaks (such as leaking when you cough, sneeze, or move), which can be normal for up to a few months after delivery
- Full or uncomfortable breasts, particularly if you are breastfeeding
- Feeling more out of shape than expected, often due to fatigue, sleep loss, and recovery, not just fitness level
- Weak abdominal muscles, which may show up as lower back discomfort
If you notice any of the following, it’s a good idea to stop exercising and check in with your doctor:
- Breastfeeding suddenly feels more difficult right after exercise
- Postpartum bleeding becomes heavier or turns pink or red after activity
Emotional Well-Being and Support
Know the Signs of Postpartum Depression and Available Support
As you get closer to welcoming your baby, it can be helpful to learn about the emotional changes that sometimes happen after birth. Knowing what's normal the weeks following delivery and when to reach out can help you feel more prepared.
Many new parents experience the baby blues in the first couple of weeks after birth, which may include mood swings, tearfulness, or feeling overwhelmed, and it often improves on its own. If these feelings last longer than two weeks, don’t start to improve, or feel like they’re getting worse, it’s important to contact your doctor. Postpartum depression and anxiety are common, and help is available.
Postpartum recovery isn’t about rushing back or “bouncing back.” It’s about listening to your body, moving with care, and giving yourself grace as you heal, one day at a time.
Helpful Steps to Take Now
Helpful steps to take now and after baby arrives:
- Review the signs and symptoms of postpartum depression and anxiety ahead of time, and share them with your partner, family, or close friends so they can help watch for changes.
- Know where you can find support, whether it be your doctor, doula, or MVP Care Manager, if you need them. It can be helpful to keep contact numbers in an easily accessible place, like on your fridge or in your phone.
- MVP Care Managers are available to talk through concerns, ask questions, or prepare for a conversation with your doctor. For support, call MVP at 1‑866‑942‑7966.
- Schedule your postpartum visit and plan to talk openly with your doctor; they want to know how you’re really doing. It can help to jot down how you’re feeling day to day so you can share specific concerns or changes at your appointment.
Learning about this now is not meant to worry you but help you be prepared and supported. You are not alone, and asking for help is a strong and important step in caring for yourself and your baby.